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Marriage

& Martinis

The Small Change, Big Impact Challenge

You're A Unique Person.

It's Okay To Want To Be

Loved In A Unique Way.

There is a difference between partners loving one another,

and partners knowing what makes one another feel most loved.

There is a difference between partners helping one another,

and partners understanding what is actually most helpful to one another.

There is a difference between partners needing one another,

and partners who know what the other specifically needs to feel seen, valued, and desired.

The "Small Change, Big Impact Challenge,"

provides the blueprint, support, guidance, and tools for couples to elevate the ways they show up for one another.

Two Small Challenges (One By Each Partner)

Dozens Of Opportunities To Implement And Reinforce Those Changes.

Countless Chances To Bond, Laugh, Grow, And Refresh.

One Final Celebration To Reflect On The Success. 

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THE
"SMALL CHANGE,
BIG IMPACT CHALLENGE"
IS FOR
PARTNERS WHO:

Want an engaging experience they help design, and continue personalizing and improving throughout the process.


Are willing to each show up each day for 30 days, in a manner and capacity that works within their individual schedules (but they each have to show up). 

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Will remain open-minded enough to find out what they can each do to make their partner feel more seen, appreciated, and valued.

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Believe that elevating and improving their relationship should be dynamic, fun, intriguing, "just challenging enough," and has more potential than one could possibly imagine.

“I know I’m biased, but I think I had the best challenge ever for my husband. He had to learn about menopause. He was hesitant at first, but wound up being a really good sport about it, and I LOVED seeing him in bed at night with his book, underlining and actually taking it pretty seriously. At the check-ins, he wound up teaching me a bunch of stuff. Plus, it was so awesome to have this new topic to talk about instead of the same old stuff, and it led to a bunch of other interesting conversations. His challenge for me was to finish a renovation job in the house I started two years ago. It was good motivation to do it. Even if I wouldn't go so far to say I liked that challenge, I would 100% say that I loved everything else and we will absolutely be doing it again soon. I already have my challenge picked out.”

Cindy (and Chase) S.

“I’m not going to pretend I wanted to participate, because that would be a lie. But I really wound up being glad I did, and honestly, it was a lot of fun. My challenge for Lauren was to learn more about planning for retirement, and I think she wanted to kill me when I first revealed it. I think she wound up enjoying it way more than she thought. And I had been carrying the burden of this for so long, that I was so appreciative she could help more. It really was a ‘win win.’”

William M.

"We didn’t know what we were getting into when we signed up, but we were struggling and looking for something different. My challenge to Bill was to be in charge of dinner three nights a week. We agreed on a budget and some other details. It seem like such a simple challenge, but when I tell you it has so positively impacted our weeks and how we interact on a daily basis, I mean it has really led to so much more gratitude.William M.

WHAT SMALL CHANGE CHALLENGE WILL YOU DESIGN FOR YOUR PARTNER?


WHAT SMALL CHANGE CHALLENGE WILL YOUR PARTNER DESIGN FOR YOU?

✔️ Detailed Weekly Emails

✔️ List of Potential Challenge Topics

✔️ Tips & Strategies for Communication

✔️ Weekly Relationships Check-ins

✔️ Acts of Connection Planner

✔️ Content for Guided Brainstorming

✔️ Fulfilling Bonding Activities

✔️ Weekly Videos from Danielle & Adam

✔️ Challenge Celebration Exclusive Date Night Questions & Completion Certificate

The pre-planning process was so insightful. The questions provided to answer ourselves, and out loud to each other, led to so many great moments, laughs, and made us look at our relationship from a new perspective. And that was before the challenges even started! I' so glad we started early and didn't rush. It made it better.

I buy every product you offer, because The Date Night Questions book really did change our relationship. The Challenge added so many positive  moments to our days, and gave us the push we needed to spend more quality time together. Safe to say, I will keep buying all thing M&M!

Carol S.

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Guidance & Support

  • An extensive guide and step-by-step itinerary laying out in detail what each week will entail.

  • A comprehensive list of suggested challenge topics, and a list of topics we do not recommend.

  • Tips on how to plan so that you set yourselves up for success!

  • Prompts for brainstorming, planning, and carrying out each of your roles

  • Anecdotes and ideas shared from Danielle and Adam’s personal experience completing their challenge

  • Weekly videos by Danielle and Adam

  • Constructively composed questions to consider and reflect upon every step of the way

  • Calendars, schedules, reminders, and outlines to stay on track (or to more easily get back on track if you falter a bit).

Connection & Intimacy

  • Several opportunities (organically built into the content) for compliments, mutual support, and positive reinforcement.

  • Ideas to make each weekly check-in a time to bond, have fun, and communicate in a healthier way.

  • Questions to think about and answer together.

  • Themed coupons/love notes specifically crafted for partners to personalize for their significant other.

  • NOT AVAILABLE ANYWHERE ELSE Date Night Questions 

  • Resources to help plan and carry out a final, much-deserved celebration

Strategies & Resources

  • Opportunity to share podcast episodes, articles, accounts, etc. you would love your partner to learn from

  • Insights and research about how to form habits that last

  • List of podcast episodes, accounts, products, books, and articles recommended to enhance and strengthen your overall bonding experience

  • Tips on how to stay motivated and keep up the momentum 

  • Responsive and communicative team behind the creation of this challenge whom you can access and email with questions

WHATS INCLUDED

IN MY PURCHASE OF THE "SMALL CHANGE, BIG IMPACT" CHALLENGE?

Still have unanswered questions? Make sure you’ve listened to the Marriage and Martinis’ podcast episode “The Challenge,” and be sure to tune in to Marriage and Martinis’ instagram posts and stories for ongoing updates and descriptions. Also, feel free to reach out to jessica@marriageandmartinis.com, our “challenge” liaison and showrunner, who will gladly answer any questions in as timely and comprehensively as possible.

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