For the couple who's still trying—while everything else feels like it’s falling apart.
Let’s be honest: it’s not just the news cycle that’s exhausting. It’s the disconnect. The resentment. The tension between caring too much and not knowing how to talk about it. That’s why I created this guide — for couples who love each other deeply, but feel totally misaligned when it comes to how they move through the chaos. This is how you hold onto each other when the world feels upside down.
I wrote and designed this guide because I lived it. Adam and I are both loving, committed people—but after the 2024 election, it felt like we were speaking two different languages. I was anxious, heartbroken, activated. He was quiet, avoidant, overwhelmed. And while we stood on the same side politically, emotionally we were miles apart. It wasn’t just about politics—it was about safety, identity, urgency, and feeling understood.
(Re)Connecting Through The Chaos is the exact roadmap we wish we had. It’s gentle. It’s real. It’s designed for couples like us—who deeply want to reconnect but don’t want another “self-help homework assignment.” It’s journal-meets-conversation starter, with tiny steps that lead to big shifts.
*Pre-Launch - The guide will be emailed to you
Thursday, June 12th!
(Re)Connecting Through The Chaos
The Relationship Survival Guide for Right Now! A practical, powerful toolkit for you and your partner to find the soft landing spaces in an unrecognizable world.
THE GUIDEBOOK
✔️ Downloadable, beautifully designed PDF
✔️ Full of couples exercises, reflection prompts, communication tools, and mini challenges
✔️ Based on real experiences (and real fights!) in a marriage that made it through the fire
✔️ Created by a politically activated woman for couples trying to stay connected in the chaos
✔️ Special discounted pre-order price: $22
✔️ Regular price after launch: $32
Why Purchase During The Pre-Launch?
PRE-LAUNCH Bonuses:
Printable “Conversation Starter Pack” as a pre-order exclusive!
The 7-Day Reset Mini Challenge
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A one-week plan with small daily reconnection tasks.
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Includes a mix of emotional, physical, and play-based challenges.
If you're tired of feeling disconnected, judged, or just plain misunderstood every time a headline drops, this is for you.
Did you know?
1 in 3 couples say political differences have caused strain in their relationship since the election.
(Wakefield Research)
22% of Americans have ended a friendship or romantic relationship over political disagreements.
(Pew Research Center)
62% of women say their partner doesn't fully understand how deeply current events affect them emotionally.
(Healthline survey)
94% of couples who work through a relationship workbook together report feeling “more seen, understood, or connected” within the first 2 weeks.
(NYT Relationships section, 2023)
You are not alone.
Packed with:
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Gentle, thoughtful conversation prompts
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Mini challenges to rebuild connection
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Reflection tools rooted in both real-life experience and expert-backed research, designed for real couples by a real couple!
Learn to reconnect through the overwhelm — without needing to agree on everything.
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💥 Pre-order the first-of-its-kind couples guide created for the mess we're all living in:
👉 navigating political anxiety,
👉 mismatched emotional investment,
👉 and relationship disconnect in a world on fire. -
👩❤️👨 Whether you're tired of the arguments, feeling alone in your fear, or just need something to help you both show up better—this is it.
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This isn’t therapy. It’s not a lecture.
It’s real tools, gut-check reflections, and honest exercises from a marriage that barely made it through election night 2024.
And it’s only available right here.
🎯 PRE-ORDER now at a discounted price
💌 Includes:
✔️ Fillable checklists
✔️ Daily challenges
✔️ Emotional reset tools
✔️ Journaling prompts
✔️ Shared action plans
✔️ Guided questions that actually help
It’s designed to be simple, supportive, and summer-friendly—even if one of you “doesn’t do politics.”
Worried that your partner won’t agree to participate?
If you’re reading this and already worrying that your partner won’t want to participate, you’re in good company. That’s why I designed this guide to work with one partner, two partners, or even two wildly different energies. It’s low-pressure, completely customizable, and won’t overwhelm even the most resistant of spouses. You can start small. Send a page. Share a quote. Read it over wine or tacos. This isn’t therapy. It’s a relationship lifeline—one that you don’t have to tug on alone.
This guide is designed to be easy, low-pressure, and completely flexible.
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You can do some parts together, some solo.
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You can send a page via text and talk later.
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You can listen to music while filling things out.
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You can skip parts and still see results.
This isn’t a test or a therapy substitute. It’s a tool to help you reconnect through tiny moments of shared honesty—especially when the world feels chaotic and confusing.
You can still benefit from using this guide solo.
✔️ You’ll clarify what you need
✔️ You’ll communicate with more confidence
✔️ You’ll set healthy boundaries
✔️ You’ll feel less alone in your experience
And often, when one partner makes small shifts with love and honesty, it inspires the other to lean in, too—just on their own timeline.
Doing this work doesn’t make you dramatic or needy.
It makes you brave. It makes you grounded. It makes you the kind of partner who refuses to go through the motions when the world feels on fire.
And that? Is the beginning of real connection.
Progress, not perfection. And this guidebook, however you choose to use it so it best suits the unique needs of your relationship, will absolutely lead to progress!
Meet Danielle,
Author, podcaster, membership community host, content creator, activist, mom, feral woman.
(Re) Connecting Through The Chaos
About
Danielle Silverstein is the creator of The Date Night Questions Experience—used by over 20,000 couples—and co-host of a hit relationship podcast ranked in the top 1% globally. Featured in The New York Times and CBS Sunday Morning, she’s built a following by blending raw honesty, humor, and heart in conversations about love, partnership, and real-world stressors. Recently, she's started a membership community, called The 3AM Uprising, for women who are feeling misunderstood by the people around them, while they navigate these uncertain times as empathetic humans in a complicated world. From this experience, she's learned just how much we need to join and create safe spaces, now more than ever.
She and her husband, Adam, have weathered just about everything together—including the emotional fallout of today’s political chaos. This guide was born from that storm: a grounded, relationship-tested roadmap for couples trying to stay close when the world feels unrecognizable. It’s the Date Night Questions—but built for right now.
